Thursday, June 3, 2010

Choices

Life is all about choices... decisions, choosing, and deciding... making a move, standing up for what you believe is correct, what you feel, or what you trust and believe in. We will never make the right or correct decision 100% of the time, it's just because we can not make everyone happy. What might seem like the right thing to do for someone else could be the wrong thing for someone else. We will make mistakes, but how do we know what to do from there? Some say instinct, some say knowledge, and others say heart. However, only you can really make the call. Some choices are easier to make than others, some are small, but meaningful. Sometimes it seems like it is easier to never bring up some things because you are afraid of the results or conclusion that may happen. Other times, you have to have a break from it all, you have to get out, so you break away, knowing all, and nothing.

For example, a relationship, a good one, one that lasts, has great communication and trust. It is said when you get married, you are looking for someone to marry that will fill the hole that your parents did. Your significant other will do things, they do not even know that they are doing it, but the same things that annoyed you with your parents, you will see in him or her. They will consistently test you unknowingly. Love is built, love is work.

All we really want is love. We may be after it in a wrong way, asking the wrong people, looking in the wrong places. We may even think it is love, when really it is something totally different, or even wrong. Love is more valuable than anything you can buy with money, or the money itself. Love is more valuable and essential than the purest waters, the brightest seas, and sometimes... even more valuable than life.

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